A wedding is filled with magical moments, but two have gained particular popularity in recent years: the First Look and the First Touch. These two emotional highlights offer a unique way to place your love story at the center of your big day.
The First Look – The Most Intimate Moment of the Wedding
The First Look is the moment when the bride and groom see each other for the first time before the ceremony, away from the hustle and bustle of guests and the traditional idea that the groom only sees the bride at the altar.
The advantage? You have a private moment just for the two of you. Many couples share that this moment helped to ease the tension before the ceremony, allowing them to feel much more relaxed afterward.
Picture this: The groom stands with his back to the bride, his heart is racing. Slowly, he turns around and sees his future wife in her stunning dress.
Tears, laughter, joy - all these emotions come together, and the photographer and videographer are there to capture them. This this is one of the most emotional moments of the entire day for many couples.
The First Touch – Combining Tradition with Modern Romance
For those who wish to keep the tradition of seeing each other for the first time at the altar, there is an equally beautiful alternative: the First Touch. Here, the bride and groom touch hands—without seeing each other.
For example, you could meet around the corner of a door, hold hands, and perhaps share a few last words of affection before the official "I do."
The First Touch offers a balance between modern romance and traditional charm. It can have the same calming effect as the First Look while still building anticipation for that unforgettable altar moment.
Which One Is Right for You?
The decision between the First Look and the First Touch depends entirely on your personal style. Some couples love the thrill of sharing that first glance in a private setting, while others prefer to celebrate the classic moment at the altar. Here are some factors to consider:
Emotional Preparation:
Many couples find it calming to see each other before the ceremony to ease their nerves. The First Look also creates an intimate moment between the two of you, something you might not have again for the rest of the day.
Photos:
Both the First Look and the First Touch offer fantastic opportunities for capturing emotional and candid wedding photos and videos.
Timeline:
A First Look also allows you to take some of your portrait and couple photos before the ceremony, which means you won’t need to step away from your guests for as long later, giving you more time to enjoy with them.
The Magic of These Moments
Whether you choose the First Look, First Touch, or the traditional meeting at the altar, each of these moments will make your wedding special. They provide emotional highlights and wonderful opportunities to celebrate your love in a deeply personal way.
In the end, the only thing that matters is that the moment feels authentic and right for both of you. Whether you go for tradition or a more modern twist, this small, intimate moment will be an unforgettable part of your wedding day.
Conclusion: In the world of weddings, there are many trends, but the First Look and First Touch are definitely among the most emotional and romantic moments you can include in your celebration. As a wedding planner, I’m a huge advocate for these moments, and I even had a First Look at my own wedding.
They not only offer a special opportunity for photos but also a moment of calm and togetherness that will strengthen you for the rest of your day.
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